The groom will sit down and shut up, if he wants a wedding night.
I've known girls who plan their entire wedding, all the details, with a faceless blank for the eventual bridegroom. When the time comes, his input into “their” wedding will not be solicited, welcome or wanted - if he wants her, then it's on her terms.
I've never followed through to see how such marriages turn out. Badly, I expect.
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Date: 2008-02-20 08:57 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-02-20 11:08 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-02-20 10:32 am (UTC)The groom will sit down and shut up, if he wants a wedding night.
I've known girls who plan their entire wedding, all the details, with a faceless blank for the eventual bridegroom. When the time comes, his input into “their” wedding will not be solicited, welcome or wanted - if he wants her, then it's on her terms.
I've never followed through to see how such marriages turn out. Badly, I expect.
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Date: 2008-02-20 03:37 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-02-20 05:07 pm (UTC)Who said there was a groom? She hasn't even been out on the first date!