I was just coming in to push my biology/physiology glasses up on my nose and say "WELL, ACTUALLY..." but you beat me to it. ;)
But yes: pipamazine was a very different drug than thalidomide. There's such a weird sociology to these early anti-emetics for morning sickness. Hyperemesis gravidarum is a very real thing and has always been a very real thing- my mother never had any morning sickness but recalls a friend who lost her first pregnancy because they LITERALLY could not get her vomiting under control and get enough calories in her to sustain a fetus. So while we see these kinds of "get that little lady feeling ship shape and back to work!" ads, there were also THOUSANDS of miserable women trying to get through the day without barfing 50 times. Also: laying around all day feeling miserable is, well, miserable. Who WOULDN'T want to find a magic pill to make that stop?
i had fairly easy pregnancies as far as morning sickness goes...with my son i was put on bed rest at 3 months because of premature labor. :/
then at 7 months with him i caught a virus my older brat brought home from school. ended up in the ER, was badly dehydtrated from spewing from BOTH ends, and we will NEVER forget that i got a pill for the diarhea and a suppository for the vomiting. just really unreal.
mind you, it WORKED, it was just a laugh-to-keep-from-crying situation LOL (oh, and both the kids are my brats...love them dearly but they are no angels! they're normal people who mess up...but they're still my babies. at 21 and 32!)
i think most parents are like that, wouldn't trade their kids...
it's all "i'm proud of them, they're doing ok, and now i have a granddaughter to spoil" and their happiness makes me happy. that's how it should be. :)
and the best thing of all is to answer the phone and hear "MIMI! I LOVE YOU!" coming from the speaker. :D :D :D
Sigh, well, I won't have that to look forward to unless The Boy and his guy adopt. I don't think they are intending to, though. I'll just be happy if he finally settles down with this one.
yes, it's kind of hard for boys to get knocked up. :/
my daughter NEVER wanted kids, never planned on it, swore on her 29th birthday that if she had no kids by 30, it was never going to happen. she was pregnant a month later. the father is an ass, but you can't have everything and she NEVER married him.
i asked her "you know...you're a SMART girl. why on EARTH would you sleep with such a goob??" and she said "i was drunk, he was pretty." *shakes head* but the grandbaby is gorgeous. and looks JUST like her mama. who looks just like *me*.
(that's an old pic of us...but you can see the resemblence!)
You have my sympathies. The twenties were an interesting time, but at least he is legal and that's a bit of a load off your shoulders. They all seem to go a bit weird then, though... mine went into musical theatre.
mine moved in with his g/f nearly 2 years ago now... and they're engaged! she starts grad school plus they're both working. he's being an adult at last!!
she pretty much keeps him in line...poor boy NEEDS a minder. :D
but she's a darling girl and i love her to pieces, and isn't that what we want for our children, that they find good mates? for a while he was seeing a boy, and i was fine with that, too...i just wanted him to grow up and be happy.
That's me as well. I want him to be a good man and to be happy, and I don't care who with. He just got back from a trip to Australia to meet his SO's parents. So hopeful there will be vows spoken soon! And I so need a reason to go back to New York.
This is cringeworthy! I sympathize with her feeling ill, though. It's just the idea of her as slave that is awful. This makes me want to shove soda crackers down her throat, because they really worked with me and if you eat them before getting vertical for the day, that's best medicine!!
It was all about serving the man at that time in our lives. We've done a bit better than that, at least in some circumstances, but it's still a man's world.
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Date: 2015-04-06 12:31 pm (UTC)The sociological implications of the ad are still pretty damn disturbing, though. Must tend to your wifely duties, above all else, right?
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Date: 2015-04-06 12:39 pm (UTC)But yes: pipamazine was a very different drug than thalidomide. There's such a weird sociology to these early anti-emetics for morning sickness. Hyperemesis gravidarum is a very real thing and has always been a very real thing- my mother never had any morning sickness but recalls a friend who lost her first pregnancy because they LITERALLY could not get her vomiting under control and get enough calories in her to sustain a fetus. So while we see these kinds of "get that little lady feeling ship shape and back to work!" ads, there were also THOUSANDS of miserable women trying to get through the day without barfing 50 times. Also: laying around all day feeling miserable is, well, miserable. Who WOULDN'T want to find a magic pill to make that stop?
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Date: 2015-04-06 04:44 pm (UTC)then at 7 months with him i caught a virus my older brat brought home from school. ended up in the ER, was badly dehydtrated from spewing from BOTH ends, and we will NEVER forget that i got a pill for the diarhea and a suppository for the vomiting. just really unreal.
mind you, it WORKED, it was just a laugh-to-keep-from-crying situation LOL (oh, and both the kids are my brats...love them dearly but they are no angels! they're normal people who mess up...but they're still my babies. at 21 and 32!)
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Date: 2015-04-06 05:35 pm (UTC)it's all "i'm proud of them, they're doing ok, and now i have a granddaughter to spoil" and their happiness makes me happy. that's how it should be. :)
and the best thing of all is to answer the phone and hear "MIMI! I LOVE YOU!" coming from the speaker. :D :D :D
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Date: 2015-04-06 05:36 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2015-04-06 05:42 pm (UTC)my daughter NEVER wanted kids, never planned on it, swore on her 29th birthday that if she had no kids by 30, it was never going to happen. she was pregnant a month later. the father is an ass, but you can't have everything and she NEVER married him.
i asked her "you know...you're a SMART girl. why on EARTH would you sleep with such a goob??" and she said "i was drunk, he was pretty." *shakes head* but the grandbaby is gorgeous. and looks JUST like her mama. who looks just like *me*.
(that's an old pic of us...but you can see the resemblence!)
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Date: 2015-04-06 07:49 pm (UTC)but she's a darling girl and i love her to pieces, and isn't that what we want for our children, that they find good mates? for a while he was seeing a boy, and i was fine with that, too...i just wanted him to grow up and be happy.
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Date: 2015-04-06 03:09 pm (UTC)Thanks Mornidine, for saving me the extra work. I recommend this all my friends. - Sincerely, Don Draper.
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Date: 2015-04-06 06:00 pm (UTC)Breakfast upside your head.
Date: 2015-04-06 11:43 pm (UTC)Re: Breakfast upside your head.
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Date: 2015-04-07 04:54 am (UTC)Unless that hand slightly behind her back, is sett there to get the maximum velocity of a punch to his face?
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